Can a person over 300 pounds find a mate?

[minkyp (deleted)]

Man I tell you! I have been on so many sites trying to find a friend. But when I do meet someone they think we are going to just have S-- or even that I am going to take care of them just so that I can have someone. I want to find someone not ashamed to be seen with me out in public!

[sashibala (deleted)]

`Minkyp, you are an absolutely beautiful woman and I can assure that the men are out there! Even here in Atlanta. I have been 300+ for a very long time and have never had a problem meeting people who like me for me. I'm not sure what other sites you have been on but just stay positive and upbeat... the rest will follow.

Sashi

[southernfinery]

`imo ur best bet to meet the kind of man you really need in ur life would be in church or church activities.Yes it does matter which church lol.I think that even in church there are some users to be found but if u go there just to meet men then you will meet those that come there just to meet women and the relationship will still be shallow.I say this because without a higher power guiding and directing these men I really don't think they have the heart to stand up against peer pressure be it whatever age apparently.I mean I was watching tmz the other day and the guy was asked by one of the other guys there did he like big women and was holding up a pic of pamela anderson.This guy turned beet red and was falling all over his tongue simply because this other guy implied pam had healthy thighs.I mean come on now give me a break.These same guys couldn't get to the video store quick enough when her S-- tape with tommy lee surfaced but one person in a public setting ask a direct question about something so explicit as how another feels about the opposite S-- and this "man" can't say anything except ugggggg while trying to appear cool in front of the camera while the others laughed at the question not his reponse.Then here comes this movie of oprahs and tyler perrys about the really big girl and immediately the same question is posed as was posed when the movie"whats eating gilbert grape"came out.Can a big person make it in hollywood?Ok let's all say it together yes she will say she is extremely happy with herself as she is but as soon as she gets the first paycheck she will begin to try to fit into hollywood better and we all know what that means.